Harry Harlow conducted a series of groundbreaking and highly controversial experiments at the Wisconsin Primate Laboratories during the 1950s and 1960s using infant rhesus monkeys.
These studies were meticulously designed to investigate the true nature of attachment and the affectional bond between an infant and its mother.
Cupboard love theories are also called secondary drive theories. They treat attachment as a learned response rather than an innate one. Infants attach to their caregivers, the theory holds, because the caregiver becomes a conditioned reinforcer by satisfying basic physiological needs, primarily hunger.
Harlow’s research proved this assumption wrong. The mother-infant bond, he found, has nothing to do with food.
Harlow showed instead that attachment develops because the mother provides “tactile comfort.” Infants, he concluded, have an innate, biological need to touch and cling to something soft for emotional comfort.
Key Takeaways
- Contact comfort: Harlow’s experiments showed that infant monkeys prefer a soft, cuddly surrogate mother over a wire one that provides milk, proving attachment is not driven by feeding.
- Cupboard love refuted: The findings directly disproved “cupboard love” theories, which claimed infants attach to whoever feeds them.
- Secure base: Frightened infants fled to the cloth mother for comfort, then used her as a safe base from which to explore.
- Critical period: Monkeys isolated from all social contact for more than about 90 days suffered damage that did not reverse, pointing to a sensitive period in early development.
- Fear strengthens attachment: Infants clung more tightly to abusive “monster mother” surrogates rather than avoiding them, showing that fear activates attachment rather than weakening it.
- Legacy: The research shaped Bowlby’s attachment theory and reformed childcare practice, adoption, and animal-research ethics.
Cloth Mother vs. Wire Mother
Experiment 1
Aim: To find out whether an infant monkey’s attachment forms around the surrogate that feeds it, or the surrogate that offers soft contact comfort.
Method: Harlow (1958) separated eight newborn rhesus monkeys from their mothers at birth and gave each one a bare wire surrogate and a soft, cloth-covered surrogate. Only one surrogate fed them.
Four infants were fed by the wire mother, while the cloth mother offered comfort alone; the other four were fed by the cloth mother instead.
Results: In both conditions the infants spent most of their time, often 17 to 18 hours a day, clinging to the cloth mother. They spent little more than an hour on the wire mother, even though both groups gained weight at the same rate.
Frightened infants fled to her. She served as their safe base, and those fed only by the wire mother also showed poorer digestion and more frequent diarrhoea.
Conclusion: Infant monkeys have an unlearned need for contact comfort that is as basic as the need for food. Attachment is not simply learned through feeding. This supports an evolutionary account: what an infant seeks from a caregiver is not food, but sensitive, comforting physical contact.
Long-term behavioural effects
Monkeys reared exclusively with surrogate mothers, regardless of type, showed marked developmental abnormalities compared to those raised by their biological mothers:
- Heightened timidity and fearfulness in novel situations
- Poor social competence with other monkeys
- Submissiveness and an inability to defend themselves
- Difficulty with sexual behaviour and mating
- Inadequate maternal behaviour in females who later had offspring
Critically, these effects were only permanent in monkeys separated for more than 90 days.
Those removed from surrogates before this threshold and placed in a normal social environment were able to form attachments and largely recover, suggesting a sensitive period for social development.
Experiment 2: Fear Responses and the “Secure Base”
Harlow exposed the infants to alarming stimuli, such as a loud, wind-up toy bear beating a drum. A frightened infant fled at once to the cloth mother and clung to her.
Once reassured, it would calm down and cautiously turn to face the threat, using her as a secure base for exploring it.
This was shown more clearly in an open-field test. Infants were placed alone in an unfamiliar room full of novel objects and toys.
When the cloth mother was present, infants first rushed to cling to her. They gradually grew bold enough to venture out and explore, returning to her periodically for reassurance before setting off again.
Without her, the picture changed completely. Infants froze, crouched on the floor, cried, and sucked their thumbs, showing none of the exploration seen when she was present.
Crucially, substituting the wire mother provided no comfort whatsoever. The infants behaved as though no mother figure were there at all.
Rhesus Monkeys Reared in Isolation
The Isolation Procedure
Harlow, Dodsworth, and Harlow (1965) studied the effects of extreme deprivation by raising infant monkeys in total social isolation, inside a steel chamber he called the “pit of despair.” Different monkeys spent three, six, nine, or twelve months there.
He then returned each monkey to a group of normally reared monkeys, to observe what effect a total failure to form an attachment had on its later behaviour.
Findings
Once isolated, the monkeys showed a pattern of harm that grew worse the longer it lasted:
To start with the babies were scared of the other monkeys, and then became very aggressive towards them. They were also unable to communicate or socialize with other monkeys. The other monkeys bullied them. They indulged in self-mutilation, tearing hair out, scratching, and biting their own arms and legs.
- Self-directed behaviour: In isolation, the monkeys clutched their own bodies and rocked compulsively.
- Severity tied to duration: The longer the isolation, the worse the damage; monkeys isolated for three months showed the least impairment and some recovery in a supportive environment.
- No recovery after a year: Monkeys isolated for a full year never recovered; the damage was permanent and persisted into adulthood.
- Reproductive harm: Isolated monkeys were socially inept and unable to mate. Inseminated females proved incapable of maternal care, often neglecting, harming, or even killing their offspring.
- Deprivation vs. privation: Losing a bond (deprivation) is bad, but never forming one at all (privation) is worse, Harlow concluded. Beyond a threshold, its effects cannot be reversed.
Maternal Rejection & Abuse
Harlow’s later experiments examined a question with direct clinical relevance: why do abused children so often remain attached to the very caregivers who harm them?
Behaviourist theory predicted that punishment would weaken a bond, since individuals learn to avoid sources of pain.
The clinical evidence suggested otherwise, and Harlow designed experiments to understand why.
Abusive surrogate experiments
Harlow modified cloth surrogates to incorporate mechanisms of rejection.
Some were fitted to emit blasts of compressed air. Others contained blunt spikes that could be extended to physically force infants away.
In one variation, a buzzer was sounded as a warning signal before each air blast.
By behaviourist logic, infants should have learned to use the buzzer as a cue to move away.
The logic seemed sound. Instead, when the buzzer sounded, infants clasped the surrogate more tightly, receiving the blast at full force.
When spikes were extended, infants moved only slightly away, then returned and clung as closely as before once the mechanism retracted.
Why fear intensifies attachment
The infants’ responses reflected a core principle of evolutionary attachment theory. Frightening situations do not weaken attachment behaviour; they activate it.
When an infant is alarmed, its biological drive is to seek proximity to its caregiver.
Where the caregiver is also the source of the threat, that drive does not diminish. If anything, the fear amplifies it.
The attachment figure and the source of danger are the same individual, and the infant’s nervous system responds to the fear rather than its cause.
Similar patterns appear across species. Young animals attacked by a dominant individual will often seek proximity to that same individual immediately afterward.
The “motherless mothers”
Harlow also studied how females raised in total isolation behaved as mothers. Having no social or maternal experience of their own, they were profoundly impaired parents.
They rejected their infants’ attempts to cling and ignored their distress. Some caused their infants serious physical harm.
Yet even infants who suffered sustained maltreatment from their own mothers kept showing intense attachment toward them. The drive to attach did not depend on how the infant was treated.
Taken together, these findings explain why early abuse so rarely breaks the attachment bond. The bond does not depend on positive experience. It is triggered by the need for safety, and that need is most acute exactly when the caregiver is the danger.
Conclusions
Harlow’s experiments converged on one central finding: the mother-infant bond develops mainly through contact comfort, not feeding. Food was not the driver.
Warmth and physical closeness, his data showed, are foundational to healthy development, not incidental to it.
The infant monkeys who clung to the cloth mother did so regardless of which surrogate held the milk. That is the clearest possible demonstration that affection, not nourishment, drives the bond.
A Critical Period for Recovery
The research also identified a critical period in early development, a window during which some form of attachment or social contact had to occur.
Monkeys deprived of an attachment figure during this window suffered lasting emotional and social damage.
Recovery depended on timing. Monkeys deprived for shorter periods, within the critical window, showed some capacity to recover once placed in a normal social environment. Those deprived beyond it did not recover, no matter how much later exposure to mothers or peers they received.
Harlow put this critical period at roughly the first six months of life. Timing mattered most.
Separations shorter than about 90 days still let a monkey recover once returned to a normal social life. This was the first sign of a sensitive period in Harlow’s work.
Social, Not Just Maternal, Deprivation
Harlow also refined his account of what caused the damage. The key variable, he concluded, was not maternal deprivation narrowly defined, but social deprivation more broadly.
When infant monkeys were raised without a mother but given twenty minutes of daily contact with peers in a playroom, they grew into socially and emotionally normal adults. Even brief contact with other infants was enough to support healthy development.
Mother was not the key ingredient. The lesson was simple. What a developing infant needs, in other words, is not a mother specifically.
It needs consistent opportunities for social interaction and physical contact during a sensitive early period. Where those conditions are met, normal development follows; where they are not, the damage appears to be irreversible.
The Impact of Harlow’s Research
Harlow’s research transformed developmental psychology, childcare practice, and research ethics in ways that continue to shape the field today.
Overturning “cupboard love” theories
Before Harlow’s experiments, the dominant view in both psychoanalytic and behaviourist circles held that infants became attached to caregivers simply because they satisfied hunger.
This “secondary drive” or “cupboard love” account treated emotional bonds as a byproduct of feeding.
Harlow’s surrogate mother studies refuted this directly.
Infant monkeys consistently preferred the cloth mother regardless of which surrogate provided milk. This showed that contact comfort is a primary drive, as fundamental to development as the need for food itself.
Empirical support for attachment theory
Harlow’s findings arrived at a critical moment for John Bowlby. The timing mattered. He was facing resistance from the psychoanalytic establishment for his claim that the mother-infant bond was a primary instinct, not a derivative of feeding.
Harlow’s evidence, alongside Konrad Lorenz’s work on imprinting, gave Bowlby the empirical grounding he needed.
Behaviours such as clinging and seeking a secure base when frightened could now be understood as biologically programmed survival mechanisms rather than learned responses to reinforcement.
Childcare and parenting
The practical implications were substantial. Throughout the early and mid-twentieth century, parents were routinely advised against picking up or comforting a crying infant, for fear of “spoiling” them. Harlow proved this wrong.
His work showed that warmth and physical contact are prerequisites for healthy development, not indulgences. It also challenged the idea that biological mothers hold a unique claim to effective parenting.
Because nursing proved secondary to contact comfort, fathers, adoptive parents, and other caregivers are equally capable of providing the secure attachment an infant needs.
Institutional care reform
Harlow’s isolation studies demonstrated that meeting an infant’s biological needs, providing food, water, and shelter, is insufficient for normal development if it is not accompanied by human contact and affection.
This finding drove significant reforms in hospitals and orphanages, where custodial care had often been provided with minimal physical or emotional interaction.
The research established that deprivation of contact is itself a form of harm.
Understanding child abuse
In later experiments, Harlow designed surrogate mothers that intermittently rejected or physically punished the infants. Even so, the infants kept returning to cling to the abusive surrogate. They never gave up on her.
This finding helped clinicians understand why abused children so often remain attached to, and protective of, their abusers. The drive for attachment is strong enough to persist even under consistent punishment.
Ethics of Harlow’s Study
Harlow’s work has been criticized. His experiments have been called unnecessarily cruel, and of limited value for understanding the effects of deprivation in human infants. The harm was real.
The isolated monkeys clearly suffered emotional harm from being reared alone. When placed with a normally-reared monkey, they sat huddled in a corner, in a state of persistent fear and depression. Fear had taken hold.
Some justify the experiment as valuable insight into attachment and social behaviour.
At the time, most researchers believed attachment depended on physical care, chiefly food, rather than emotional care. The debate continues.
Seen this way, the benefits could be said to outweigh the animals’ suffering. The research, for example, shaped the theoretical work of John Bowlby, the most influential psychologist in attachment theory. Its influence was real.
It also helped convince hospitals, children’s homes, and daycare providers of the importance of emotional care.
How did Harlow’s research influence modern animal research ethics?
The undeniable cruelty of these experiments forced society and the scientific community to confront fundamental moral questions regarding animal research.
It sparked a fierce debate over whether humans have the right to subject animals to such potentially harmful and highly distressing situations for the sake of scientific discovery.
Harlow’s findings gave monumental insight into attachment. But the extreme suffering of his animal subjects showed the need to balance the pursuit of knowledge against the moral duty to minimise animal distress.
Ethical Guidelines
These controversies forced change. In response, professional bodies such as the American Psychological Association (APA) and the British Psychological Society (BPS) drew up exacting guidelines to protect animal welfare and prevent future abuses.
The rules are strict. Today, any institution conducting animal research must have its proposals reviewed and approved first.
Approval comes from an Institutional Animal Care and Use Committee (IACUC), or an equivalent ethics board, before any experiment can begin. Oversight is now standard.
These committees, typically comprising scientists, veterinarians, and community members, ensure that researchers strictly adhere to the “3Rs” of animal research ethics:
- Replacement: Researchers must actively consider all available options to replace the use of live animals with alternative methods, such as computer simulations or video records, whenever those alternatives can fulfill the research objectives.
- Reduction: There is a scientific and moral requirement to use the absolute minimum number of animals necessary to obtain statistically valid results.
- Refinement: Experimental procedures must be carefully designed and refined to minimize any pain, distress, or discomfort experienced by the animals.
The 3Rs remain central to every approval decision. Under these modern ethical frameworks, researchers must prove their study has a clear scientific purpose.
They must also show that the value of the research to humans or animals justifies any potential harm. Harm must be minimised wherever possible.
Psychologists must also assume that anything painful to humans is painful to animals too. This requires them to use anesthetics or analgesics whenever possible, and to humanely euthanise animals found to be in severe, unnecessary distress.
The standard is now high. Because of these sweeping ethical reforms, Harlow’s original maternal deprivation and isolation experiments would never be approved or replicated by any institutional ethics board today.
Critical Evaluation of Harlow’s Research
Beyond the ethical debate already discussed, Harlow’s studies raise further scientific questions of their own. Some strengths are well established, but so are real limitations.
Strengths
Several strengths stand out:
- Well-controlled evidence: Placing the milk bottle on the wire mother let Harlow isolate contact comfort from feeding, giving a causal result that correlational human studies could not.
- Convergent human support: Schaffer and Emerson (1964) found that human infants were often most attached to caregivers who did not feed them, so the finding is not a monkey-only artefact.
- Theoretically generative: The studies supplied the empirical foundation for Bowlby’s attachment theory, and, alongside Lorenz’s imprinting research, anchored the rejection of “cupboard love.”
- High applied value: The findings reshaped childcare advice, hospital and institutional practice, and adoption and fostering, as later sections describe.
Scientific Limitations
But real limitations remain:
- Generalisability: Human attachment involves language, culture, and prolonged cognitive caregiving, so Harlow’s precise findings, and especially his critical-period thresholds, may not transfer directly from monkeys to humans.
- Design confounds: Early surrogates differed in more than softness alone, for example in head design, so a strict critic could argue the infants’ preference reflected more than contact comfort.
- Necessity questioned: Critics have asked whether the most extreme isolation procedures were truly necessary. Milder manipulations, and naturalistic evidence such as institutionalised children, already pointed the same way.
- “Irreversibility” overstated: Suomi and Harlow (1972) showed that isolated monkeys could be rehabilitated by pairing them with younger “therapist” monkeys, so recovery was sometimes possible after all.
Together, these limitations do not overturn Harlow’s central finding, but they do temper how far it can be pushed.
Contemporary Research
Modern human evidence supports Harlow’s broad lesson: responsive, contact-rich caregiving, not feeding, drives healthy socio-emotional development. Attachment neuroscience now traces mechanisms Harlow could only infer, including the roles of touch, oxytocin, and stress-hormone regulation in bonding, giving a physiological basis to “contact comfort.”
The science has caught up with Harlow’s intuition.
Verhage et al. (2016) synthesised three decades of research and found that a caregiver’s own attachment representation predicts their child’s security across generations. Harlow’s studies also remain the paradigm case cited in the ongoing reform of primate-research ethics.
The 3Rs and IACUC oversight are often framed as a direct response to the harms his experiments made visible.
References
Harlow, H. F., & Zimmermann, R. R. (1958). The development of affective responsiveness in infant monkeys. Proceedings of the American Philosophical Society, 102(5), 501-509.
Harlow, H. F., Dodsworth, R. O., & Harlow, M. K. (1965). Total social isolation in monkeys. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 54(1), 90-97.
Schaffer, H. R., & Emerson, P. E. (1964). The development of social attachments in infancy. Monographs of the Society for Research in Child Development, 29(3), 1-77.
Suomi, S. J., & Harlow, H. F. (1972). Social rehabilitation of isolate-reared monkeys. Developmental Psychology, 6(3), 487-496.
Verhage, M. L., Schuengel, C., Madigan, S., Fearon, R. P., Oosterman, M., Cassibba, R., Bakermans-Kranenburg, M. J., & van IJzendoorn, M. H. (2016). Narrowing the transmission gap: A synthesis of three decades of research on intergenerational transmission of attachment. Psychological Bulletin, 142(4), 337-366.