Setting Boundaries in Relationships

Setting boundaries in relationships involves clearly and directly communicating your needs. It’s important to respect others’ boundaries in return. While compromise is good where possible, don’t sacrifice your personal values, space, or emotional health. If needed, renegotiate boundaries in your relationships.

What are Boundaries in a Relationship?

Personal boundaries are the limits and rules we set for ourselves within relationships. A
person with healthy boundaries can say “no” to others when they want to, but they are
also comfortable opening themselves up to intimacy and close relationships.

Does Interpersonal Emotion Regulation Effort Pay Off?

Interpersonal emotion regulation refers to using other people to change one’s or others’ emotions. It involves intrinsic regulation, where we try to influence our feelings by turning to others for support, advice, modeling, etc. It also involves extrinsic regulation, where we intentionally try to shape how others around us feel through engagement, acceptance, rejection, and other interpersonal means. The outcomes have important implications for emotional well-being and relationships.