Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) is a technique that can help reduce anxiety and stress by tensing and then relaxing different muscle groups in your body. This process helps you become more aware of the difference between tension and relaxation.
Anxiety (e.g., generalized anxiety or social anxiety) can make it difficult to relax throughout the day. When we experience anxiety, our muscles often tense up without us even realizing it.
PMR is an anxiety-management technique that can help us to be more aware of when we are tensing our muscles, become more attuned to our bodies, and consciously help release built-up tension.
Dr. Tracey Marks, psychiatrist and author explains that it is easier to relax a muscle if you tense it first.
The physical act of relaxing muscles sends signals to the brain that it’s time to calm down, which can be particularly helpful during the fight-or-flight response, often activated during elevated stress and anxiety.
Relaxation Sequence
Preparation
- Find a comfortable and quiet space: Choose a place where you can sit or lie down comfortably without being interrupted. This could be your bedroom, living room, or even a quiet spot outdoors.
- Minimise distractions: Turn off your phone, dim the lights, and let others know you need some quiet time. The goal is to create a peaceful environment where you can fully focus on your body.
- Wear comfortable clothing: Loose-fitting clothes will allow you to move freely and relax more easily.
PMR typically involves working through different muscle groups, starting from your toes and moving up to your head, but you can do it from your head to your toes if this feels right.
Tip: Make sure you are taking slow, controlled breaths during this sequence. Breathe in when you tense each muscle group, then breathe out as you release. Incorporating breathwork can enhance the effectiveness of this relaxation practice.
Here’s a common sequence:
Feet
Curl your toes downwards, hold the tension for 5 seconds, then release and relax for 10 seconds. Notice the difference between tension and relaxation in your feet.
Lower Legs
Point your toes, tightening your calf muscles. Hold, then release and relax.
Upper Legs
Extend your legs and tense your thigh muscles. Hold, then release and relax.
Tip: It might be helpful to say “relax” as you relax each muscle.
Buttocks
Clench your buttock muscles. Hold, then release and relax.
Abdomen
Tighten your stomach muscles as if bracing for a punch. Hold, then release and relax.
Chest
Take a deep breath and hold it, tightening your chest muscles. Exhale slowly and relax.
Back
Arch your back slightly, tensing your back muscles. Hold, then release and relax.
Shoulders
Shrug your shoulders up towards your ears. Hold, then release, and let your shoulders drop back down.
Arms and Hands
Make a fist and tense your forearms. Hold, then release and relax.
Neck
Gently tilt your head back, tensing your neck muscles. Hold, then release, and bring your head back to a neutral position.
Jaw
Clench your jaw. Hold, then release and relax.
Eyes
Close your eyes tightly. Hold, then release and relax.
Forehead
Finally, raise your eyebrows as high as you can. Hold, then release and relax.
Post-Relaxation
- Stay seated or lying down for a few moments: Allow yourself to fully absorb the feelings of relaxation before getting up.
- Notice any changes in your body: Observe any sensations of warmth, heaviness, or tingling.
- Reflect on your experience: How relaxed do you feel? What did you notice about your body during the practice?
Tip: If you are in a rush you can complete this practice in a few minutes. For optimal benefits, work up to a 20-minute regular practice by really taking your time with each muscle group and experiencing the relaxing sensations.
“Progressive muscle relaxation is one of those things that you can do in the 30 minutes before bed as part of your bedtime preparation. Or you could do it in the middle of the day like your lunch hour for a middle-of-the-day recharge.”
Dr. Tracey Marks
How can I learn PMR?
There are many guided PMR recordings available online, on YouTube, and through apps. Therapists may also offer PMR training and guidance as part of your well-being journey.
Considerations
Below are some things to keep in mind if considering PMR:
- Consistency is key: The more you practice PMR, the better you’ll become at identifying and releasing muscle tension. Aim to practice daily, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
- Listen to your body: If you experience any pain or discomfort during the exercise, stop and adjust the tension level.
- Combine with other relaxation techniques: PMR can be combined with other relaxation techniques like deep breathing, guided imagery, or meditation for enhanced effects.
Potential drawbacks
Dr. Tracey Marks warns that PMR, while safe, could worsen certain medical conditions such as muscle spasms or back problems because of the process of the tensing of muscles.
She advises consulting with a doctor before completing PMR if you think this applies to you.
Others have explained how PMR might feel too uncomfortable for them:
“If I am able to make my muscles ‘relax’ as they should, I then experience a great sense of unease in my body. I feel so so uncomfortable. My body feels unsafe and I feel better if I intentionally tense my body in response.”
‘Malorie’
It is also questioned whether PMR is helpful or detrimental to some people with trauma. For trauma survivors, being in a state of calm can be triggering in and of itself and might unintentionally cause a flashback.
Talking to a healthcare professional about alternative methods for managing trauma responses is advisable.
What are the benefits of PMR?
Research suggests that PMR can help with a variety of conditions, including:
Anxiety
PMR has been shown to significantly reduce anxiety levels in multiple studies. This is likely because it lowers the levels of cortisol, the stress hormone.
“[PMR] is the only thing that will bring me back from dissociating (besides just trying to wait it out) because it forces me to focus on my body in what feels like a safe way for me.”
‘Carlos’
Depression
Some studies indicate that PMR can be a helpful tool in managing depressive symptoms.
PMR may help depression by promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and improving sleep quality, all of which can positively impact mood.
Insomnia
PMR can help improve sleep quality by relaxing your body and mind before bed.
PMR likely improves insomnia by decreasing arousal and anxiety at bedtime, two common contributors to sleep disturbance. It may also directly impact sleep architecture.
“I have used PMR to help me on nights where I just cannot fall asleep. I often find I fall asleep before the end of the practice!”
‘Rebecca’
Headaches
PMR may relieve headaches by decreasing muscle tension in key areas like the head, neck, and shoulders. Muscle tension is a major contributor to tension-type headaches.
Pain management
Some research shows that PMR can be helpful in managing chronic pain, such as pain from arthritis or irritable bowel syndrome.
References
Dolbier, C. L., & Rush, T. E. (2012). Efficacy of abbreviated progressive muscle relaxation in a high-stress college sample. International Journal of Stress Management, 19(1), 48–68. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0027326
Field, T. (2009). Progressive muscle relaxation. In T. Field, Complementary and alternative therapies research (pp. 97–101). American Psychological Association. https://doi.org/10.1037/11859-010
Muhammad Khir, S., Wan Mohd Yunus, W. M. A., Mahmud, N., Wang, R., Panatik, S. A., Mohd Sukor, M. S., & Nordin, N. A. (2024). Efficacy of Progressive Muscle Relaxation in Adults for Stress, Anxiety, and Depression: A Systematic Review. Psychology Research and Behavior Management, 345-365. https://doi.org/10.2147/PRBM.S437277
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